Philadelphia Dominatrix Lexx Envy - FAQ

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Q. How does the Mistress prefer to be addressed?
She prefers to be addressed as Domina, Domina Lexx, or Goddess.

Q. I can't view the her photo gallery. Why?

That is mostly because it is a Flash gallery and  you are viewing this website on an IDevice such as an iphone/iPad/iPod. Switch to Droid. ;)  In the mean time, you may see galleries on her other websites, so go there. www.LexxEnvy.com and www.PhillyDominas.net

Q. What are her psychical stats?

She is 5'8 without heels. She has very thick, long dark reddish auburn hair and green eyes.

Q. How long has she been a Dominatrix and what does she enjoy most about the Philadelphia BDSM scene?

She has been a professional Dominatrix for more than fifteen years yet began her exploration in the BDSM lifestyle when she was a teenager.Little known fact: She began her career in Seattle Washington about twelve years ago, and continued her training at a house of Domination when she moved back to Philadelphia and was laid off from her IT job.
Over the past years, she has balanced her Domme career as well as academic studies and  positions in the IT industry.

 Q. What is Her tribute?

Tribute for PHILADELPHIA based sessions that are booked in advance is 250 an hour.  The tribute for same day appointments (IF available and if She chooses to see you with such little notice is 300 an hour. Double Sessions with Her and another Domme begin at 450 and hour and + .Be sure to inquire when booking the session.

The tribute when She travels outside of Philadelphia may vary,so be sure to inquire.

Q.� She is one of the most beautiful Philadelphia Mistresses. Are the pictures on her site really her?
Absolutely they are definitely her. She frequently hears that her pictures do her no justice at all.


Q. So does she consider herself a true lifestyle dominatrix?
Absolutely. She has always considered herself a naturally dominant woman who demands respect and obedience from not only those who serve her, but from those she interacts with on a daily basis. She thoroughly relishes and takes the utmost pleasure in what she does, and always respects the fantasies and limits of her subs and toys.

Q. Most clients are concerned about discretion when visiting a Dominatrix or Mistress. Is she discreet?
She has the greatest and most sincere respect for her clients privacy and she expects them to have respect for hers'. Her private Playspace� is one of the most discreet in all of Philadelphia. She does not offer dungeon rentals, nor host play parties there. The only people who have been to her studio are fellow clientele and a few select Mistresses from Philadelphia and from out of town.

Q. Does she see novices?
Of course. Some of her favorite sessions have been with novices as she� loves to be part of their new found games and persona. She loves to watch them grow in their fetish over weeks, months or even years. It is wonderful to be able to set a goal with someone and help them achieve it and also explore together.

Q) Where in Philadelphia is she located?
She is� located about 5 minutes from Center City. After you have confirmed your appointment, you will be given the cross streets. Philly is only fifteen minutes from Cherry Hill NJ, 30 minutes north of Delaware, and roughly and hour and a half to two hours from New York City, Baltimore Maryland and Washington DC.

Q. What are some of� her favorite activities?
That is a very hard question for her to answer. Its more a matter of what she may be in the mood for at any given time. She also thrives on the reactions of her slaves and toys, so that has a significant impact on what she will enjoy.

Q. I don't see my fetish described on your website. May I ask you why not?
Her site is somewhat limited by concerns about censorship and your email should be as well. Euphemisms are appreciated and graphic descriptions may not receive a response. Inquire� politely and be articulate and you will see.

Q. What will the session be like?
Remember, you are perusing a web site of a Philadelphia based Dominatrix and BDSM educator, not a psychic. Everyone is different and therefore, so is every scene that unfolds. Besides, even if she did know what was going to happen, why ruin the surprise?

Q. I understand that BDSM play in many instances involves the exchange of power among the two parties. Would it be possible to have a session with the Mistress that does not involve power exchange?
Yes, it is perfectly possible to engage in fetish exploration with Domina Lexx Envy or have a scene utilizing only her S/M or bondage skills. If you are a bottom or masochist you'll find she derives just as much enjoyment engaging in the play as long as this is all clearly negotiated before the scene.

Q. I want to submit but can not leave with markings. Would I still be able to have a session with Domina Lexx Envy?
Yes, it is perfectly possible to engage in BDSM play and not leave marks. Any responsible and experienced Dominatrix/Mistress can engage in play without leaving "evidence". And remember, Domination is not just about pain - it encompasses many scenarios and skills.

Q. What does she� wear?
She� usually wears black leather, latex, PVC, along with thigh-high� boots, spiky stilettos or pumps. She also enjoys wearing stockings, garter belts, corsets, various forms of lingerie or catsuits. If you have a fantasy of being dominated by a nurse, teacher, boss, or a woman in street clothing, she enjoys doing that as well. Do not request any degree of nudity from her.

Q. Does she play with any other Dommes?
Yes. She does play with other select Mistresses in Philadelphia, as well as some of the other cities she visits. Keep in mind, she does have a gorgeous female sub who now also switches who is available for double sessions in any dynamic.

Q. What Type of clients do you prefer to see?
First off, clean, respectful, polite ones. Aside from that, curious, responsive ones with a sense of adventure - and a sense of humor. She thrives on and feeds off of� your responses, so the more responsive you are, the higher levels of inspiration she� can reach and the more incredible places you will be taken.
 

Q. Does she use safe words?
Yes, all of her play follows the BDSM mantra which is that it is safe, sane and consensual. And if for whatever reason you are not able to use your mouth, such as being gagged in any way, you will be instructed to utilize a non-verbal safe signal. Anytime you play, with her or anyone else, you need to set up a safe word BEFORE you start to play. Use this safe word anytime you feel threatened physically or mentally. You will not be seen as weak if you use your safe word, nor will you 'ruin the fun.' While she revels in your pain, she does not desire to damage you physically or psychologically. For more advanced players she likes to allow them to ask for mercy. It is at her whim as to whether or not provide the requested mercy, and this is as close as she comes to playing without a safe word. The basis of a BDSM scene is consent. And the difference between a sadist and a sociopath is that as well. Just keep that in mind if you choose to play with a Domme who does not respect your true limits.

Q. Do you see women and couples?
Absolutely. The more the merrier. ;)


Q. Does the Mistress travel outside of Philadelphia? If so, where and how can I stay informed?
When she has time to venture outside of her hometown Philadelphia, she may sometimes Guest Mistress at New York City's Pandora's Box. She sometimes travels to Baltimore Maryland, Washington DC and Chicago. The best way to be informed is to join her Yahoo Group, or to check the News/Schedule page of this web site periodically.

Q. What is her schedule?
That fluctuates. Email to inquire.


Q. How do I go about making an appointment?
For same day appointment attempts, you can call her receptionist for screening. If you know in a day or two in advance when you can come in, she appreciates and prefers an e-mail of introduction so that you may get acquainted before your encounter. Same day appointments are highly unlikely, so plan accordingly.


Q. How much notice does she require before making an appointment?
As much notice that you can possibly give is appreciated and also increases your chance of being able to see her. You are welcome to attempt a same day session. An hour for� notice (IF she is available at that time frame) is needed.

Q. I do not live any where near Philadelphia or any of the cities that Dominatrix Lexx Envy visits. Would she consider coming out to my area if I cover all the expenses?
This depends on certain circumstances in her life at the moment. Aside from taking professional Domination and BDSM scenes in Philadelphia and other cities, she is also busy with her academic endeavors and multimedia projects. You can e-mail her to inquire if she would be interested. Be prepared to give a reliable reference.


Q. Can I buy her� a gift?
Domina Lexx's trainees and admirers often ask if they may offer her a personal gift and such gestures always bring a smile to her face. It is not expected, so don't feel obligated. However, if you would like to surprise her, gifts will be gratefully accepted and appreciated. Peruse the wish-list page if you desire to get her a gift certificate or a token of adoration.

Q. Is she looking for a personal slave?
Yes, but� do not approach her about being a slave unless you have seen her several times. Random e-mails and phone calls from complete strangers inquiring� for personal servitude make her very uncomfortable. Consider it this way: how would you feel if someone you never met e-mailed/called you out of the blue asking to be your business partner, friend or lover? Unsettling and awkward, right? This is a position that is� based on chemistry and compatibility, and like any relationship will grow over time, not start immediately.
Also keep in mind that personal servitude is REALITY not a fantasy, and that this is truly a position for those who need to serve, and the interested party must be able to bring something to the table.�


Q. Can I be her houseboy?
Possibly. If you are interested, be prepared to give a valid reference from a reputable Mistress. This Mistress does not have to be in Philadelphia necessarily. She just needs to be legit. And be prepared to work hard and do not� expect a "barter" of playtime for housework at her studio.

Q. Does she do outcalls?
Occasionally Domina Lexx will consider an outcall in the Philadelphia area. Outcalls must be booked a day in advance and you must have either seen her, or have a valid reference from another Mistress

Q. Does she offer overnight or weekend sessions?
Yes, she does. Overnight and/or weekend sessions must be booked in advance.

Q. Does she ever "Bottom" or "Switch" (i.e. be the submissive)?
No. However, she does have a beautiful brunette "switchable" sub Arianna to join in on double sessions. In the near future, select gentleman will be able to see Arianna alone in submissive sessions.

Q. I want to see what it feels like to cross dress or just be mildly feminized. Being married, I don't have any clothing.
No worry. The Mistress has an extensive wardrobe for both large and small frame men. She can fit you in a Bra and panties, lingerie, or typical everyday women's clothing. Or ALL. The choice is up to her how she wants you to look. If there is� something specific you want, or perhaps a size she does not� carry, you will be expected to bring it or pay for it in advance if she has to purchase it. Be sure to tell her receptionist your size when you book your appointment.

Q. I am a professional Dominatrix in Philadelphia PA as well. Can I rent space from the Mistress to do My BDSM scenes?

Possibly.Email

Q. I am a professional Mistress who will be visiting Philadelphia. Can I host my BDSM scenes at her establishment?
Possibly. E-mail her and inquire.



 


 

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